endlessly curious
In: perfectly maria
4 Feb 2010I’ve been a reader since I was young, which means I’ve read a lot of books. Some books have been more memorable than others but when asked what my favorite book I’ve ever read, I always come up blank.
Never has a story touched me like Honolulu did. Maybe it was because of my infatuation with Hawaii or my being immersed in Korean culture lately, whatever it is this book is number one in my mind. A favorite, maybe all time favorite. I felt connected with the main character Jin. Not because I had anything in common with her but because the writing make me feel like I was with her in her struggles, journey and happiness. I don’t often become attached to the characters. The story was very well put together and the fact that it was written by a man in the perspective of Korean picture bride left me in awe. It amazes me all the background information that was read to weave the fictional story of Jin with accounts of actual picture brides and historical events and people.
This work of fiction truly inspired me. It made me realize that I read a lot of fluff, and while there is nothing wrong with that, I want to read more novels with substance.
Next time I’m asked what my favorite book is, I’ll have an answer, Honolulu by Alan Brennert.
*I was not paid to review this book, it was something that I found in the library.
For someone who is a tiny bit afraid of heights, I never thought I’d be taking aerial yoga classes at the Detroit Flyhouse. I didn’t think I’d be trying to flip myself upside down while I have my foot locked into fabric. And I certainly never envisioned myself flying in mermaid pose on a trapeze.
This step of leaving my comfort zone has been one of the most rewarding experiences I’ve ever had. A month ago I didn’t even know something like this existed.
Clearly, I need to open my eyes to opportunities that are less mainstream. I’ve never felt particularly trendy or with the “popular” crowd. I’ve tried, but it never felt right. The more I embrace marching to my own tune, the more like me I feel.
For someone who is slightly antisocial I never thought I’d attend a blogger meet up. I didn’t think I’d have so much to laugh and talk about. And I certainly didn’t know that after meeting these 6 awesome ladies, I’d have wonderful new friends.
2010 is the start of exploring things I would never think of, going places I didn’t know existed and putting myself out there. I suppose that is what living is. Not only learning each day but taking chances and risks.
If you take a good look at your life, is that what you are doing? And if not, what’s stopping you?
In: perfectly maria| travel
13 Jan 2010In the past 4 days Chuck and I have went through a list of destinations for our next vacation. Las Vegas, Arizona, Key West and New York. What we decided on was San Diego when my finger typing and clicking came across a flight that we found was more than reasonable.
We’ve been talking about going to California for a long time now, it just seemed out of reach for our “budget”. I use that term loosely because, really, I’m horrid at actually setting a budget. The best I can do is estimate that either yes we can make it work or no we can’t.
I used to plan vacations months in advance. Now? I don’t want to wait more than a month, two, tops. So San Diego, here we come!
Would you believe me if I told you I found a studio apartment to rent in Ocean Beach for $75/night? I did. They didn’t have any vacancy but there were others. Boy were there others. I have a whole list of places I’ve emailed and called. All for under $100/night.
Chuck and I aren’t picky about the size of the place we stay at. Mostly, it’s just a place to crash after a fun day. We’d much rather stay in a condo, studio or apartment than a hotel. That is just us. We like to be able to cook our own food so we aren’t eating out 3 meals a day. I like that a lot of rentals come with extras like boogie boards and bikes. It’s like borrowing someone’s home.
The first time we did it was on our honeymoon in Hawaii and we vowed never to stay in a hotel again, unless it was some place like Chicago or New York. For fun we’ve looked at villas in Tuscany. There are vacation rentals everywhere! Even in northern Michigan.
If you are planning a vacation and are thinking about looking into a vacation rental I use VRBO, Home Away and Vacation Rentals.
Oh and in case you are wondering, I wasn’t asked to write this post, I’m just amazed that more people don’t know about these websites and what they have to offer.
In: perfectly maria
30 Dec 2009Wow a decade in review. It’s crazy that it’s almost 2010. I remember when we were all freaking out about Y2K. It’s no joke that 2000 was my best year yet. Definitely the best of the decade. With 2007 coming in close behind, but a couple bad things happened to mar the year.
A look back…Keep in mind the years from 2001-2004 are kind of blank to me and since my photos are a mess I might not have much to remember off the top of my head.
this is really sad…I have no idea what went on this year…
It’s really sad there are times I can’t recall what happened. And I don’t have pictures to remind me. Anything you can think of that happened that I should add?
What about you, what does your decade in review look like?
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In: animal behavior
10 Dec 2009
Back in October 2008, Chuck and I went to the grocery store. When we got home we found an empty bottle of advil on the floor complete with teeth marks that had chewed the plastic bottle in half.
We couldn’t find Liko. He was hiding under a blanket his eyes as big as dinner plates. When we called him he could barely walk and was swaying from side to side. We were pretty sure that the bottle was almost full and Liko weighs 15 pounds.
Frantic calls to the Animal Poison Control and to the emergency vet, since it was Sunday, had us wrapping the now projectile vomiting rat terrier in a blanket and rushing him to the emergency room. He had to stay overnight where they gave him charcoal and flushed his blood.
The next day the emergency vet let us take him to our regular veterinary office where they advised he stay overnight for the same treatment. Dr. Mathew let us take him home that night with instructions to bring him back in a couple of days for tests, to make sure no permanent damage had been done to his liver or kidneys.
Luckily, Liko’s test came back fine and 6 months later he tested normal again. It was such a relief. What was not a relief was the $800 emergency veterinary bill and the $300 bill to Dr. Mathew.
According the an article on Dog Age I received via email, here are ways to help pay for unexpected vet expenses:
This post is purely of my opinion and personal experience.
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Did you have a night out with friends or a loved one that rocked your world? Who was there? What was the highlight of the night?
Probably the most exciting hockey game I ever went to was Game 7 of the Red Wings vs the Anaheim Ducks in May 2009. I was with Chuck, my Uncle Andy and Aunt Liza. It was beyond the edge of your seats game. I’ve never heard the Joe so loud before. It really was an experience.
Unfortunately, I picked that night to forget my camera! We had a really good time and we were definitely high on the crowd’s energy and ready for the next round to start when we left the arena!
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In: random thoughts
4 Dec 2009What book – fiction or non – touched you?
19 Minutes by Jodi Piccoult.
It was an emotional book that showed both sides of a school tragedy. You didn’t want to sympathize with the shooter because of the awful situation he created but you couldn’t help it. The book made me really understand that there are two sides to everything.
If you are looking for a thought provoker this is definitely a good read.
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The Watson and I are going to see New Moon tonight. Don’t worry we aren’t obsessed fans that might cry when the movie starts. More likely we’ll be the jerks in the row behind you laughing at all the awkwardness and heavy breathing on the screen. I won’t lie that’s what we were like when we saw Twilight at the dollar show.
I told Amy that we aren’t allowed to sit by anyone because I really don’t want to get yelled at for our sarcastic remarks. It’s about the experience of the movie, not the movie itself. Plus, I won’t have to feel bad about not working out tonight because Amy makes me laugh so hard it’s like doing sit-ups anyways.
At work yesterday someone’s daughter had a baby and named her Isabella, yes it is thought after Bella in Twilight. This scares me. These poor babies being born that are named after characters in a book. And let’s be honest, a book that wasn’t exactly well written. It’s not like it’s a classic. This lady got lucky. The plot is great, the writing, not so much.
Moving on, it just so happens that Jacob is one of the only boy names Chuck and I have both liked. Now, if* we ever have a boy Jacob is totally out of the question because of all the twilight freaks. Now if only I can get Chuck to like Evan…
Total bummer.
*THAT IS A BIG IF DON’T READ INTO IT. THANKYOUVERYMUCH
In: random thoughts
1 Dec 2009Chicago – March 29th for Chuck’s birthday.
We took the train. I found an awesome deal on a classy hotel. We did a lot of shopping, some sightseeing and had an awesome time. We want to go back soon!







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I got my haircut and colored today. Not sure how I feel about the bangs…
What do you think?